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Sadism, With Empathy
What pain, trust, and care really look like inside BDSM
Jan 21
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Ashley
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The Meaning of Life is 67
Plot twist, it is no longer 42
Jan 13
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Ashley
It's time to talk about sexual shame
We start to learn about sexual shame from the world around us - starting from the teachings we receive from our parents as a kid, then later influenced…
Jan 4
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Ashley
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December 2025
Peace, at Year's End | Christmas 2025
The Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us. May His peace find you this Christmastide.
Dec 24, 2025
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Ashley
Winter Solstice
"A little bit of light dispels a lot of darkness." — Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi.
Dec 22, 2025
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Ashley
New X/Twitter account | Navigating Big Tech
My X account was suspended this week.
Dec 15, 2025
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Ashley
知不可乎驟得，托遺響於悲風
What cannot be hurried, we leave to the wind.
Dec 7, 2025
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Ashley
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Slow Cooked Short Rib Ragù Pasta
Cooking for two hungry Dommes, three, if you count me in, is never an easy feat.
Dec 1, 2025
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Ashley
November 2025
Thanksgiving 2025, gratitude, bones and all of it.
Thanksgiving, in all of its tonality, has its parallels with our Lunar New Year — a festive of togetherness, all appetite, no apologies.
Nov 28, 2025
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Ashley
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Golden Collagen Chicken Soup with Fish Maw & Abalone
金仔/Kim-á: My grandmother called me “金仔” — Kim-á in Hokkien, my native tongue — the golden child.
Nov 17, 2025
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Ashley
BDSM & Our Shadow
It’s easy to reduce BDSM to a list of activities — latex outfits, foot worship, getting whipped — but those surface details miss the point.
Nov 10, 2025
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Ashley
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The Opposite of Invisiblility isn't Visibility, but Belonging
It was a humid night in Singapore, I brought V home for a nightcap, her first time over.
Nov 3, 2025
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Ashley
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