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I Miss My Lipstick

I do a matte dark red lipstick for sessions, usually a rosewood or a burgandy.

Sep 8 • 

Ashley

1

Look At How Insignificant We Are In The Scheme Of Things!

I have this favourite kink meme saved in my phone, and I’ll sometimes send it to my new submissives for shits and giggles.

Sep 4 • 

Ashley

3

August 2025

Fish-love

My best friend’s cat fell horribly ill a month ago.

Aug 18 • 

Ashley

2

June 2025

Understanding Submission and Ownership

Picture this: A vast countryside in rural Illinois. It is midsummer noon and the sun is beating down fiercely on our lush, well-tended farmland, and you…

Jun 19 • 

Ashley

2

Sexuality, Power, and the Myth of Matriarchy in Femdom Relationships

In exploring dynamics within the kink community, and particularly within femdom (female domination) ones, a recurring theme is the romanticization of…

Jun 8 • 

Ashley

3

我期待的不是雪

Just like any other Asian daughter, I was brought up by tiger parents with endless music lessons in my childhood.

Jun 4 • 

Ashley

3

March 2025

BDSM and Therapeutic Sexual Healing

More often than not, BDSM has been pathologized and stigmatised as sexual disorders, or at best, sexual deviancy and fantasy fodder.

Mar 5 • 

Ashley

1

To find a way into someone else's life, we need to find a way out of ours - Part 4

I couldn’t remember when was the last time I bought a plush.

Mar 3 • 

Ashley

1

To find a way into someone else's life, we need to find a way out of ours - Part 3

"All roads led back to you, even those I took to forget you." - Mahmoud Darwish

Mar 3 • 

Ashley

Food, and love

In my FMTY back to SF in November 2024, I ended a session with my boy late.

Mar 2 • 

Ashley

February 2025

When SSC/RACK isn't enough

Kink facilitators (Dom/mes, and community leaders alike) emphasize plenty about nurturing a safe space for play and exploration.

Feb 11 • 

Ashley

2

December 2024

Christmas 2024, a year in review

O C'mon All Ye Faithful

Dec 23, 2024 • 

Ashley