What do you seek?
I first stumbled upon BDSM & kink during the earlier days of Collarspace, and later, the underbelly of the internet on Locanto and Craigslist. I initially identified as a submissive and started off my kink journey as a submissive, serving a number of old school and strict dominants.Through my submissive journey, I picked up protocols, servitude and the skills required of me to eventually transition to becoming a dominant. Being on the receiving end of things has allowed me to understand the deep-seated psychology of submission, and the submissive's mindset.
As a Holistic Dominatrix, I integrate energy rituals, hypnotherapy and a keen sense of intuition and empathy to work on your hidden unconscious self. To me, Dominance is about creating containers of sacred spaces for vulnerability and power exchange. What inspires me is the guiding of subs through their journey of sexual and kink positivity on their own terms.
In addition to being a Professional Dominatrix, I am also an empath, and kink educator/coach. My focus is in helping individuals reconcile their kink identities with their vanilla, everyday self. My approach is based on helping clients get in touch with their inner child, understand how their past has shaped their present and written certain narratives. This could be through family origins, evolving sexuality, past traumas, or conservative societal upbringing. Through coaching, I hope that individuals get in touch with their inner child and develop healthy attachment styles with their loved ones while having a positive relationship with their self and kink identity.
In all, I am more of a facilitator than your run-of-the-mill fetish provider-ish-Dominatrix the world makes me out to be. If you want your balls stepped on, or needles stuck into your penis, by all means, seek a fantasy maker. If you crave to understand the impasse of your past leading into your present and where to go from there, come to me. And let me end with a quote from Carl Jung: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will rule your life and you will call it Fate.”
