The vanilla outsiders (sometimes even the insiders) think that as a Dominatrix, I spit on subs, whipping them into submission, or pushing their limits a bit each time, as their whimpering reverberates in my room.
Yes, "facilitator" is a more operative description. The Scene - in its variety - is little-understood by those not in it. For myself, its about trust+communication, endorphins, and, capturing the essence and moments for an aesthetic for bdsm art. My equation of the Scene may be one of the simplest.
Yes, "facilitator" is a more operative description. The Scene - in its variety - is little-understood by those not in it. For myself, its about trust+communication, endorphins, and, capturing the essence and moments for an aesthetic for bdsm art. My equation of the Scene may be one of the simplest.